It’s really annoying that people get angry at Gogumas when they do things that other shippers do too! I don’t know if it’s only Gogumas they see, or they don’t know any other ship, but isn’t it normal for ALL ships to spazz about coincidental stuff, like clothes, accessories, etc? It’s a normal thing for shippers, it’s part of reality that ALL shippers tend to get DELUSIONAL SOMETIMES. What matters is that they know how to stop, and support their OTPs as individuals, even to the point of supporting their OWN RESPECTIVE GROUPS.

HATERS, (or those who claim they aren’t but aren’t objective enough in their opinions), KNOW and BE INFORMED that not everything Yonghwa/Seohyun does is being related to the other. Next time, before you hate one ship, RESEARCH first. Go ahead and bash them IF you see it’s something ONLY that ship does, and it disturbs or harms the individuals, but SHUT UP (or you’ll look stupid) if it’s otherwise. Please people, it’s not difficult to do some little background study. 

Peace!

“I honestly think Yonghwa had feelings for Seohyun while they were filming for We Got Married — at one point or another — so did Seo. I mean, both of them had to like each other, in order to make the show more realistic. But I’m sure those feelings had fade by now. I’m glad they’re still friends though.”

“I’ve become a bit wary about Jonghyun since I found out he physically hit or did whatever he did to Jungshin over a bass tone. Yes, they were in an argument and boys fight, and I actually agreed with Jonghyun in the situation, but the hitting seemed way out of line.”

“I am going to their Sydney concert by myself, but I don’t mind because I love them so much I want to die sometimes >.<”

“I’m not a YongSeo fan but I never find the shippers annoying.”

“I’m actually really curious about Jonghyun when he’s with the other Kyuline members… I’d like to see them on running man!”

No! Thank you so much. :) That’s very sweet of you. Lots of love. 

We currently have few more confessions to be done so far. So go ahead and shoot our askbox with your confessions, guys! Go!

I have two but my personal tumblr is themadnessunderneath and Amy’s is baesuzys. :)

Published because I don’t think this is meant to be sent as a confession.

P.S The complaint post isn’t ours. It’s a confession sent by others but because of the length of the confession, we had to make it as a text post. NONE of the confessions we post here are ours. Please take note. Thank you and have a nice day. :)

I’m really tired of the “delusional” label and scape-goating Gogumas get from “real fans”. Normally I just let it go, but it’s getting tedious. Let me tell you something. Gogumas on a whole do not relate everything Yonghwa does with Seohyun, or vice-versa. In fact, most of us are against it. Nor are we convinced 100% they are definitively dating. The only thing Gogumas do as an organized group is support CNBlue and SNSD activities, and that’s it. We try to be extremely careful not to relate uneccessary things or talk about shipping where it’s not appropriate (like our own discussion sites). I hate the assumption that we are imposing something on Yonghwa when he is the one that has been encouraging the Yongseo fandom for the past three years by consistently wearing our gifts and recognizing our fan projects. Fan projects and food support which, by the way, have consistently and quietly been prepared for nearly every concert, television, and radio appearance, and NOT just for Yonghwa and Seohyun, but also their respective groups and staffs. He is not an idiot, nor she. They know exactly what the gifts and the support are from, and they’re well aware of the implications. If they were bothered in any way they wouldn’t use them publicly over and over, they would have ignored our efforts a long time ago. So as long he continues this, and doesn’t indicate he’s in another relationship with someone else, we are not hurting him or making him uncomfortable in any way. It’s called logic, not delusion. I’m a Boice first, and if there was any indication from Yonghwa that he was annoyed by Gogumas, I would never support it. It’s totally fine if you don’t support or like them as a couple, but don’t discredit us as insane or inconsiderate to his feelings without bothering to know the details and the work we’ve done and the way he himself respects us. Granted, there are some shipper fans that are overly zealous and make the rest look bad, but those exist in ANY fandom. They don’t and they shouldn’t represent the whole.

I know that there are times when Gogumas are too delusional, actually, MOST OF THE TIME. But hey, aren’t all shippers delusional? No shipper is realistic unless the pairing is in a real relationship. And as for the others saying that Gogumas are saying they’re a couple because of wearing same things, NO ONE SAID THEY’RE A COUPLE. We ship them, but we never confirmed they’re a real couple ‘cause no one knows. It’s the Korean media that blew the issue out of proportion, even invading their private lives. Gogumas like me never wanted an issue about them, that’s the last thing we hope for. If they’re really dating, it’s up to them if they want to reveal it or not. If they want to keep it as a secret, we respect it. If you only know how Gogumas were mad when the media even asked about them living in the same villa. And by the way, most of the couple items worn by them are given by the Goguma fans. The reason why Gogumas are spazzing is because they used the items given to them by the fans…not because they’re effin’ real ‘cause no one knows if they’re dating, or if they’re dating other people, or if they’re both single. Only the two of them will know. So STFU saying we’re so delusional ‘cause people shipping two persons of the same gender are more delusional.

Personally as a Boice I feel very annoyed by Gogumas! I watched WGM and I thought they looked cute together, but some Gogumas are taking it to the next level of being delusional. They relate everything Yonghwa does to Seohyun. I feel really bad for Yonghwa and Seohyun! Do Gogumas think they are robots? Do they have to like each other just because Gogumas say so? Okay, so Gogumas think that Yonghwa is dating Seohyun because they wear the same clothing, same sunglasses or because they interact a little with each other on TV. If those are Gogumas’ proof that they are dating, then Yonghwa and Seohyun are dating a whole lot of other people!!!!! I’m not being a hater I’m just being realistic! Okay, let’s say they are dating — it’s great for Gogumas, but what if they are dating some other people — you are making life really hard for these two. Just stop and think. How would you feel if your friends pair you up with someone you might not even like just because you had a project together? It annoys me that they ship them without considering their feelings. In case you Gogumas forgot, they are humans and they have the freedom to date and to like whoever they want.

Aw, thank you. We always try to relate the picture to the confessions we get. And no don’t worry! You’re not being rude at all. Yes, it isn’t necessary to put psds and most confessions blog don’t actually color their pictures but we like coloring so, why not? ;) But of course, you can choose to have your confession(s) without coloring. We’re flexible.